Along came a Narc
December 3, 2023
Along came a Narc
Who made me his mark.
As he studied me online
He mirrored my values to make me believe he was a man I wanted to be mine.
Little did I know none of his charm could he sustain.
So after we married and 2 children later so began his narcissistic reign.
He discovered me online in a divorce chat group, my unknown voyeur for months. I was in the midst of a divorce from my first husband who had cheated and left me with 4 very young children. He silently watched as I conversed with others going through similar situations. I expressed my frustrations with my soon to be ex’s excessive pornography use, his hiding of money and ultimately taking early withdrawals from a work IRA to fund his affairs. His disinterest in being a father. How easily he moved on from all 5 of us barely looking back. My total distain for infidelity.
After months of watching me, in rode my white knight, mirroring every single one of my beliefs. Oh how naive I was.
It was a mostly ‘online’ affair for quite a while, moving to phone contact and eventually meeting in person. He was overtly charming and had a pretty face. I was hooked.
Who made me his mark.
As he studied me online
He mirrored my values to make me believe he was a man I wanted to be mine.
Little did I know none of his charm could he sustain.
So after we married and 2 children later so began his narcissistic reign.
He discovered me online in a divorce chat group, my unknown voyeur for months. I was in the midst of a divorce from my first husband who had cheated and left me with 4 very young children. He silently watched as I conversed with others going through similar situations. I expressed my frustrations with my soon to be ex’s excessive pornography use, his hiding of money and ultimately taking early withdrawals from a work IRA to fund his affairs. His disinterest in being a father. How easily he moved on from all 5 of us barely looking back. My total distain for infidelity.
After months of watching me, in rode my white knight, mirroring every single one of my beliefs. Oh how naive I was.
It was a mostly ‘online’ affair for quite a while, moving to phone contact and eventually meeting in person. He was overtly charming and had a pretty face. I was hooked.
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Alongcameanarc 
wow!! 75Along came a Narc