Ex is still posting about me

Tonight:

How does he remove me from his life? He says he can’t do so legally…..I believe he is working on a course of action in his head. He’s playing and replaying my demise attempting to perfect his plan.

Yet again I was, according to EX, given ‘100% of everything’. He received 1/2. HALF. One half of our marital assets. I refi’d the house 3 yrs, 2 months ago. His VA loan has been free and clear for him to reuse again for the last 3 yrs, 2 months. The only alternative to how the judge divided assets would have been to sell the house and split the left over equity after selling costs, and then divide his 403b acct in half and split between the two of us. The equity was virtually identical to the balance in his 403b and I wanted the house.

Gaslighting, delusion or just plain old liar? Actually they all fit.

Ex was writing monthly checks for the spousal support. I believe he savored writing those checks. Every month was a new and different vile name written in the notes section of the checks. Ex’s visible tantrums every month. My attorney asked at the final divorce trial for a withholding order. Ex argued against withholding because he ‘pays his bills’. The judge ordered withholding.

This still begs: Why can’t he rent? Why is it a house ‘decades older’ or ‘homeless in his van’? Why are these the only options? Drama drama drama

February 2026 marks 5 years. 5 years since I caught him red handed having an affair. 3 yrs, 2 months since our divorce was finalized.

‘’That is 100% of my problem.’’: When is he going to move on? Get a life? Stop perseverating on me? His ‘problem’ is his heart is full of hate and grudge holding. His ‘problem’ is he lost control and it’s eating him alive.